YourPerfectPlate
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Why put up with way too much on your plate if you don't have to?
Ever look at your calendar and see it’s wall-to-wall? Ever wonder how many of those hours and hours of meetings will make a difference? Ever feel like working for a nonprofit or public service means donating an additional 10, 15, 20 hours or more each week – time you should be with your family?
Good news – you’re not alone. And there’s help at hand. But first let me ask you a few questions to see what, if anything, resonates for you. Time to keep score:
1. New work lands on your plate but you wonder whether it will "move the needle" even if you get it all done.
2. You make room on your schedule for bureaucratic tasks like performance reviews that not only don't add value but seem like they actually detract from pursuing the mission.
3. You attend a partnership meeting that doesn't just fail to meet its expectations for collaboration but seems to have no real purpose that anyone can remember, other than to repeat the same, tired aspirations.
4. You want to delegate to your direct reports but wonder if it's just easier to do it yourself since you're accountable for it and you don't want to have to redo their work right up against deadline.
5. You miss a school play, music recital, sports event or even a parent-teacher conference because you just couldn't get away in time. Score double points for every time you found out about one of these events after it happened because your family has stopped counting on you to get there.
6. Your spouse has hinted that you should consider a change in career and your best friend complains that "you just don't seem like you".
You are committed! You are willing to extend yourself above and beyond in order to deliver on the mission. You will do whatever it takes, and you do. No one can question your passion. No one can question your commitment. But yet, you yourself have questions.
Of course, you know you’re not alone. Look around and you’ll see that many of our colleagues are in the same boat.
There’s that funding proposal that you need to submit in less than 24 hours but you’re still waiting for the final budget figures…
As well as the quarterly report deadline but those metrics, well – let’s just say they don’t tell the story in numbers that you’ve been telling yourself or hearing from staff…
And then there’s the coffee with a Board Member that you don’t have time for but it’s already been rescheduled twice…
And, for the third time this week, you’re not eating dinner at home with your family.
I won’t even mention the gym.
(Whoops.)
In nonprofit and mission-led work, we reinforce each other’s tendency to overload, overcommit and overstretch. We feel OBLIGATED to do more and more and more.
Our work lives revolve around meetings. Meetings that plan. Meetings that budget. Meetings that review and oversee. Meetings with partners. Meetings with funders, with Board members. And then the training. And the one to one meetings with staff…so many meetings. Not to mention the meetings about the meetings! So little time left over to get “real” work done.
We know our work is all about relationships. We're in a people-centered field. It's people-driven, people-connected and people-serving. And all these relationships between people take time. I totally get it. I understand 100%. Because for much of my career...
I've done the long crazy hours with a wall-to-wall schedule. I missed family events and kids' events and school events, even missed work events to try and catch a break. I let my wife down too many times to count (although I think she’s got it written down somewhere). I tried to do it all until I wore myself ragged and suffered with a total lack of energy and motivation. I fooled myself into thinking that it was temporary. If only I could squeeze out a bit more effort, a bit more suck-it-up-and-keep-on-keeping-on then the impact achieved would be totally worth it and plain for all to see.
So I kept at it. I was out before anyone woke up and came home after everyone went to bed. If there was a drop more blood in that stone, I was going to find it and extract it, one way or another. At weekends I’d emerge, groggy, unshaven and irritable, like some college student after a late night but in my case I wasn’t have any fun at all. At one point my kids jokingly referred to me as “mom’s friend Kev” who they saw occasionally on Saturday and Sunday mornings.
I don't even remember our vacations. I was sleeping.
Up and out of the house before anyone else is up. Not back until everyone is in bed.
Booked solid. All day. Every day. Week after week.
Not just tired. Fatigued. Grouchy. Irritable. Bad company.
Then I realized there were Four Horses of the Workload Apocalypse preventing us from having the right things on our plate. The things that blend competence and challenge and steadily move the work forward at pace toward impact. Horses one, two and three are: worthiness, urgency and dependability. We'll get to number four in a minute.
These three Horses of the Workplace Apocalypse - worthiness, urgency and dependability - ride together to add more and more to your plate. Worse, they add the WRONG things - the low value, time-sucking tasks and responsibilities that either don't really matter or don't matter enough to crowd out the stuff that you know you should be focusing on. The stuff that leverages your unique skills and strengths. The stuff that makes the greatest impact. The trick isn’t getting everything OFF your plate, it’s controlling what gets ON your plate in the first place.
You’ve heard of “gate-keeping” – the unenviable task of protecting a valuable commodity inside the gate. The term comes from medieval times when a knight in not-so-shiny armor stood guard at the drawbridge, protecting the noble family and their treasure inside the castle. Now we find similar roles at a doctor’s office, where the receptionist doesn’t wear chainmail but sets appointments and lets you know whether you’re welcome there (or not) or whether you’ll be seen quickly (or not).
Maybe one of your funders has a program manager that protects a development fund with mind-bending jargon and overly complicated application processes. Then of course there’s the bouncer at the most popular nightclub who makes sure the long line of eager clubbers never gets any shorter.
Instead of gate-keeping, think of “plate-keeping”. It’s the same idea except you’re guarding the gate that things have to get through to get on your plate – all the tasks, responsibilities, and new projects and initiatives.
Here’s the unvarnished truth.
Only one person can be the bouncer or the knight. And that person is YOU. And when you don’t act like a bouncer or a knight, you become the fourth Horse of the Workload Apocalypse. (I told you we would come back to this!)
"But wait," I hear you say, "I’m actually quite good at time management and function at a high level of productivity."
I know you do. You suffer the “Penalty of Efficiency” – when you’re so diligent, competent and dependable that your plate ends up piled much higher than everyone else’s and with a ton of stuff no one else wants to do.
Work-life balance has actually very little to do with time management and productivity. Those are important, to be sure, but they come into play for the things that are ON your plate. Stuff that doesn’t get on your plate in the first place doesn’t create any challenges for your time or productivity.
It all comes down to understanding how work gets on your plate in the first place. And why it stays there. Why it resists coming off. And even when you think it’s gone, it grows boomerang wings and returns to whack you right across the back of your head. And it’s back on your plate too.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking you’ve got to press on no matter what. We say to ourselves, “This is supposed to be hard. We’re addressing deep-seated, systematic social problems, they’re not going to go away if we don’t really stretch ourselves.”
We feel like we have no choice.
Or worse, if we choose NOT to do something, first we'll feel guilty about it and second it’ll come back and bite us on the bum later. We won’t hit our targets. We won’t qualify for that extension grant. We may have to lay off staff or close down a program completely. With sad certainty, won’t make the impact we’re trying to make.
We burnout if we attack the workload like it DESERVES to be attacked,
or we fall short if we don’t go all out.
Or you can take back control. Here are five things you can do RIGHT NOW to reset your work-life balance so you can maximize your impact at work while enjoying time not at work:
YourPerfectPlate is a self-directed online course that walks you step by step from being frenetic and overstretched to feeling fantastic and optimistic. I created this course for you to reset your work life as a nonprofit leader with full focus on impact. I want to help you cut out the noise and free yourself up to be fully present in your personal life and come back refreshed every day. Don’t the people you serve deserve you at your best?
You’ll learn how to quickly clear your plate of all the clutter and low value activities that distract you from your professional potential in terms of impact.
We’ll also cover how to make sure that the things you’re committed to are the RIGHT things. Right for you personally and professionally, right for the organization you work for, and right for the people you serve.
And we’ll make sure you have enough time in your personal life to refresh and recharge.
You’ll never have to cancel on a friend or miss a school play or any other obligation (unless you choose to – remember when spare time gave you choices?!).
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg…
This Program Is the Fastest Possible Way To Reset Your Workload
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Proficient Plate-keeper
Kev has over 25 years' experience in nonprofit and mission-led organizations in health care, social care and education, both in the United States and United Kingdom, working behind the scenes to support front-line practitioners. He's tackled big, messy service transformations and turnarounds in multiple services for adults and children, child protection, mental health, and K-12 schools among others. He's learned though making a gazillion mistakes how to focus on and deliver impact. He refuses to stop smiling.
I get it. When you're fighting fires or speeding at 90 mph (or both) it's hard to even think of taking your eye off what's immediately in front of you. That's precisely why I really believe this program will change your life.
I'm not kidding. Because it is possible (and not too hard) to “re-learn” how to restore work balance in a nonprofit or mission-led setting.
And it's possible to overcome the common types of resistance and roadblocks that your colleagues have developed over time – mostly unconsciously, mostly with the best will in the world, mostly with a deep desire to do “anything and everything” to move the needle on impact.
The really good news is that if you decide that making your career work for you is something you want to learn, and then you also take the steps towards awareness and learn it, you can get back to being the energizing, confident, assured, and naturally impactful leader who Boards want to hire and promote and funders want to fund.
Good question - looking around at the scale of the issues we're trying to address, it's easy to get frustrated. We seem to get in our own way and use up all our time on stuff that doesn't matter much. That's exactly where this type of training fits in - helping you be your best self to make the most impact possible.
That way, you won’t ever have to worry about ending up thinking that you’ll never make the impact you’re always striving for… or become so completely frustrated and dissatisfied with nonprofit work and culture that you resign yourself to the opinion that it’s okay to be overburdened forever.
Don’t put yourself on the path of a once-rising leader who, out of pain and fear, has accepted for themselves a work life without real impact, and a personal life that’s disconnected and passes by too quickly.
The YourPerfectPlate program will allow you to create and experience more energy and impact in your life… regardless of the problems that may exist at work, and regardless of your past experiences.
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